When I thought about writing a blog, it was to write for me. I wanted to get my thoughts and feelings, out of my head and onto the page. It was public, so anyone could find me but without advertising; I was hiding in plain sight. A few friends and strangers joined my party and off we went. My blog …
Universal Language
‘Universal language may refer to a hypothetical or historical language spoken and understood by all or most of the world’s population. In some contexts, it refers to a means of communication said to be understood by all living things, beings, and objects alike’. Mathematics is often viewed as a universal language. Regardless of culture or religion, the numerical results are …
Modern Family
This month, saw the tragic passing of my Aunty. She lived in Amsterdam with her husband, children and grandchildren. I met her a few times. She was my Dad’s favourite sister, he is heartbroken. My Aunt had just got back, from her dream holiday, in Rhodes and was back at work. After a two day conference, she took herself to …
It’s not right but it’s okay
I was chatting candidly to a girlfriend the other day, when I said the following; ‘I’m the fixer. The one that gets pulled in during a crisis. I fix the issue, then they go out to celebrate with someone else’. I was talking about, the ever evolving, situation with quite a few of my friends. I’m forgotten most of the …
Piece by Piece
He’ll never walk away He’ll never break her heart He’ll take care of things, he’ll love her Piece by piece, he restored my faith That a man can be kind and a father can be great – Kelly Clarkson Father’s Day was this week. Ours went by, with a nice personalised card and gift for my husband, followed by dinner with …
Last Words
My Grandads funeral took place this week. I find funerals in general, a bit weird. Whether you are completely distraught or find the whole thing creepy and awkward – there you all are, side by side. Close friends and relatives standing shoulder to shoulder, with people they love, despise and don’t even know. I’m so sorry for your loss My …
Rainy Night in Soho
I have known you for many years. I wish I had known you all my life. You are the classic accidental friend. We met at work. I was your boss. You were the immaculately dressed assistant, with the big smile. Instantly warm, kind and so very funny. I can honestly say, I have never laughed so much, with anyone else …
Best Laid Plans
‘I mourned the loss of my Grandfather in 1991, when my Nan died. For me, he hasn’t been the same since then. He was awful to me as a teenager, after her death and damaged our relationship beyond repair. As heartbreaking as that is, I am able to be stronger and more supportive to my Mum as a result. I …
A Mothers Love
This week we celebrated Mother’s Day, in all its splendor. Many sons and daughters, embracing, sharing and celebrating their Mums. Their best friend. Their confidante. With Spa days, theatre trips, shopping sprees, and afternoon teas in high demand. Social Media platforms, were awash with pictures, old and new. The 70s clothes and 80s perms were quite a sight. No matter …
Good Innings
A delightful phrase that you often throw at a friend, or relative of someone, who has had a long and successful life. My Grandfather is 87 and currently in hospital. In truth, he has not been himself for many years. Last month he had a fall in his flat. The paramedics, that broke into his property to rescue him, advised …