As birthdays go, this year’s was brilliant. I celebrated my birthday over two weekends; a fine blend of family and friends time, in equal measure.
Last year there was so much pressure, to have the night of all nights on my birthday. Milestone birthdays, much like New Years Eve, are supposed to be the very best time out. The best people, best food, best drink and let’s not forget; the best and most flawless photos ever! Must show the world how fabulous your festivities are and equally how fabulous you and your people look at the same time.
Last years birthday, all things considered, was shocking. Damp Squib springs to mind. Don’t get me wrong, parts were lovely but overall the whole affair left me feeling rather…meh.
This year there wasn’t any pressure. I didn’t chase anyone or rally the troops to go out with me. No one asked me out either. The plans just fell into place organically. I had a weekend with a girlfriend. Then some much needed family time. My husband and I took our daughter to see Santa. We then went on a beautiful winter wonderland walk, followed by a family meal. My brother’s (on/off) girlfriend and I had an Afternoon Tea at a Vintage Tea Room, followed by many cocktails and other assorted beverages. I had some lovely text messages, some new pyjamas from my mum and some flowers from my brother.
My mum texted me on my birthday; I personally felt, a telephone call would have been nicer. With the exception of a 10 minute visit, made by me last month, I have not physically seen my mum in 3 months. She’s only a 20 minute drive away. I can’t drive anymore and sadly, it would appear, she just won’t. I was so touched by my brothers thoughtful flowers. He even brought them to my house and we hugged. I was still thinking of his gesture, well into the evening so I messaged him to say thanks once again. I told him how much I missed him. That was a week ago…he is back to ignoring me. He is only a 4 minute drive away. I guess he must be really busy. That’s what I tell myself anyway.
Come on Attitude of Gratitude!
Focusing on the practice of appreciating what I have, instead of drowning in what I don’t needs regular meditation.
I had a wonderful birthday. I laughed so much and enjoyed every minute. I was surrounded by good people, felt loved and blessed. Now that’s a Happy Birthday.